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How to Last Longer - Online Course

For the man who wants to master his sexual energy and become the lover she's always wanted...

Take control of your sexual energy and unlock your full potential as a lover with this transformative online course. 


Are you ready to enhance your sexual stamina and confidence? This course offers practical strategies like semen retention, ejaculation control, and nervous system regulation, and you'll gain control over your sexual experiences. You'll learn how to last longer, build deeper intimacy, and transform your approach to sex. 


Whether you're single or partnered, this course will guide you in becoming the lover you've always aspired to be.

This course is for you if you...

  1. Are ejaculating prematurely when you engage with someone 
  2. Fear intimacy/closeness with others
  3. See sex as a way to get a quick nut
  4. Are ready to shake things up and have a sexual reset
  5. Know there’s more to sex & connecting with others but your not sure where to start 
  6. Lack confidence in life and in the bedroom
  7. Feel unfulfilled in your sex life but deep down you know there’s more available to you
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I'M READY TO MASTER MY SEXUAL ENERGY

What's in this course?

A self-paced course that you can conveniently complete in your own space.

You can easily integrate this into your day to day life,
and still make major changes & impact.


 BONUS: With the purchase of this course, you receive
ONE FREE SUPPORT CALL
with Pat, your Sex & Love Guide.





△ Course Breakdown

Module 1: Welcome and Intention Setting

Welcome & Intro

  • Explore downloadable resources, starting with the main course resource list.
  • Meet the instructor, Pat, a Sex and Love Guide.
  • Overview of the course journey, expectations, and how to maximize your experience.
  • Learn the do's and don'ts for going through the material, and more!


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Module 2: Connection to Yourself, Body & Nervous System

  • Explore how the connection between your body, mind, heart, and genitals affects your sex life.
  • Discover practices to support your internal connection.
  • Understand your nervous system and its role in regulating your sex life.
  • Learn the difference between a regulated and dysregulated nervous system.
  • Discover techniques to soothe and regulate your nervous system for better intimacy.
  • Explore co-regulation with a partner and practice mindful self-compassion for emotional processing.
  • Learn how your relationship with your body can affect your sex life.
  • Identify ways you might be subconsciously disconnecting from your body and how to reconnect.


  • Additional Practices:
    • Morning Qi Gong Flow
    • Evening Qi Gong Flow
    • Body Scan Meditation
    • Breath Awareness Meditation
    • Qi Gong for Processing Emotions


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Module 3: Semen Retention, Ejaculation Control, & more

  • Learn the definition and benefits of Semen Retention.
  • Understand how long to practice semen retention and ways to circulate your energy.
  • Learn about ejaculation, the Point of No Return (PNR), and ejaculation control.
  • Understand the 3 stages of ejaculation and differences between semen retention and ejaculation control.
  • Explore premature ejaculation (PE) and ways to heal it.
  • Discover 22+ tips for lasting longer during sex.
  • Learn the do’s and don’ts, such as the importance of foreplay and serotonin, and what to avoid.


  • Additional Practices:
    • Void Breath for Moving Sexual Energy
    • Belly Breathing for staying calm and regulated


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Module 4: Moving Your Sexual Energy

  • Learn the definition of sexual energy and how it exists in your body.
  • Discover the 3 types of sexual energy: suppressed, projected, and balanced.
  • Understand how each type affects your sex life and supports a flourishing sexual experience.
  • Introduction to Sublimation: what it is, why it’s important, and how to practice it.


  • Additional Practices to move and ground your sexual enregy:
    • Breathwork for sublimation
    • Primal sounds
    • PC strengthening
    • Kegels and reverse Kegels
    • Microcosmic Orbit
    • Big Draw
    • Uddiyana Bandha
    • Qi Gong for Grounding


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Module 5: Sexual Energy Mastery

  • Learn what Sexual Energy Mastery is and how to recognize signs that you're progressing toward mastery.
  • Explore different types of orgasms.
  • Learn how to cope with Blue Balls.
  • Learn how to self-pleasure in a way that gives you energy rather than drains you.


  • Additional Practices to help you master your sexual energy:
    • Edging
    • Identifying the Point of No Return (PNR)
    • The Pause technique
    • Orgasm without ejaculation
    • Sublimation
    • Genital Massage


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Module 6: Connection with Others (Pleasure & Intimacy)

  • Integrate the course content and learn how to apply the course lessons to your life and relationships.
  • Understand the definitions of Sexual Pleasure and Intimacy.
  • Explore the fear of intimacy and its impact on sex and relationships.
  • How to connect with your partner and build intimacy


  • Additional Practices:
    • The 3-Minute Game
    • Eye-Gazing
    • I See, I Feel
    • Want, Will, Won’t List
    • Erotic Blueprint Test
    • Live Demo of how to put the practices into action with a partner
    • Heat of the Moment Practice


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I'M READY TO last longer

Meet Pat - Your Sex & Love Guide

You're not alone, brother.

For years, my sexual energy controlled me.


Fear of intimacy and premature ejaculation strained my relationship, leading me to escape with things like porn instead of deeply connecting with my partner.


I felt emasculated and insecure, hitting rock bottom when I couldn’t express my love through sex. But that low point sparked a reset.


I was determined to become a more present lover, to fully show up and open my heart. I knew there had to be a natural way to last longer, so I dove into tantra work and sexual development. Over the last 5+ years, I’ve practiced techniques to master my sexual energy, learning how to last longer, contain my desire, and channel it at the right time.


This journey transformed me.


My need for porn disappeared, replaced by a craving for deep, heart-centered intimacy. Along the way, I realized I could be the coach I wish I had—a guide to help others navigate this life-changing path.


Now, I’m passionate about helping men last longer, open up to deeper intimacy, and master their sexual energy. If you’re ready to be a more present lover and tap into sexual mastery- that's what I am here for!

Benefits of Becoming a Sexual Energy Master

Vitality & Energy

Having more energy in day to day life:
Sexual energy is the most potent energy and when you cultivate it and circulate it through your body it energizes you! 

Attraction & Admiration

There is nothing more attractive to a sexual partner than a man who knows how to regulate his nervous system, master his sexual energy, and last long in bed. The longer you last, the deeper you can go.

Confidence & Respect

Sexual energy mastery directly translates to higher levels of confidence. It gives you an alpha-male energy that infuses into every aspect of your life. Your self-respect will grow and in return, others will respect you more. You get to redefine your masculinity and own it in a strong, grounded, and confident way.

I'M READY TO MASTER MY SEXUAL ENERGY

Pricing

$148.50

50% OFF until 02/17

(regular price: $297)

Still not sure if this course is for you, or have some additional questions?

Email Pat at patspresence@gmail.com
to learn more!

It’s time to get out of the passenger seat and into the driver seat of your sex life!

See you in the course!

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